This is when you are unable to control the passage of wind or stool (poo) from your anus (back passage). This can lead to wind, or liquid or solid stool, leaking from your anus either with or without your awareness or control. Many people find it embarrassing to talk about their problem and may suffer for many years before seeking medical help. Some patients restrict their daily activities and often plan their outings around known toilet stops. This can be a source of stress for your family life and relationships.